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Building a Life

Find your place

Thirteen plain questions about your household. They turn "where should we live?" into what you need from a place, what you can trade, and what to check before you commit.

Small towns, generally under 6,000 people, and the country around them.

By Dan Whelan, founder of New World Survival

Researched from government agencies, university extension services, and other published sources. See our sources

The questions

Thirteen questions, one at a time

Each question says why we ask it. "Not sure yet" is always an honest answer, and you can go back and change anything. Your answers stay in your browser.

This page works best with scripts turned on. With scripts off, you can still read every question and print the page as a worksheet for your household.

Your life

Who is coming with you, and what are you tied to?

Why we ask: The people and commitments in your life narrow the map more than any hazard does.

Who is in the household?

Pick any that apply.

Which states are you considering?
Do you need to stay within a few hours of family, work, or care?
Is everyone who is moving on board?

Your life

What can you comfortably spend on housing each month?

Why we ask: A home that strains the budget leaves less room to handle any disruption, large or small.

Count rent or mortgage only. The full cost of a place also includes repairs, taxes, insurance, utilities, and driving. The checklist covers those.

What can you comfortably spend on housing each month?

Your life

How do you picture getting into a home there?

Why we ask: A town only works for you if it has a way in that you can use. Some towns have plenty of houses to buy and almost nothing to rent year-round.

How do you picture getting into a home there?
How much does this matter to you?

Your life

How far are you willing to be from a hospital?

Why we ask: In a medical emergency the drive is part of the response, and where you live sets the drive.

How far are you willing to be from a hospital?
Does anyone need a specialist or regular treatment?
How much does this matter to you?
What the record shows: Distance to care

What people often assume: There will always be a hospital close by.

What the record shows: Rural hospitals do close, and the trip gets longer when they do. A federal review of rural closures found that for residents of the affected areas, the typical straight-line distance to general inpatient care went from 3.4 miles in 2012 to 23.9 miles in 2018.

What to do with this: Before you commit to a place, find out which hospital serves the address and time the drive.

Source: U.S. Government Accountability Office, GAO-21-93, Rural Hospital Closures

Your life

How do you earn a living, and what does that need from a place?

Why we ask: Income is what keeps every other plan running.

How do you earn a living, and what does that need from a place?

Pick any that apply.

Could you get through a workday without home internet?
How much does this matter to you?

The town

What kind of small town sounds like home?

Why we ask: Small towns are not all alike. Each kind trades something: more services, more quiet, more work nearby, more land.

What kind of small town sounds like home?
How much does this matter to you?
What the record shows: Town or country

What people often assume: Farther out is simpler.

What the record shows: Each step away from town buys space and quiet, and adds minutes to every service you will ever call: ambulance, fire, repair, and the neighbor who can lend a hand.

What to do with this: Decide how many minutes you are willing to add, then look for places inside that line.

The town

What would make a place feel like yours?

Why we ask: A move lasts when the ordinary weeks are good. This is what your ordinary weeks are made of.

What would make a place feel like yours?

Pick any that apply.

How much does this matter to you?

The land and the weather

What weather can you live with year after year?

Why we ask: Climate shapes daily comfort, energy bills, and what will grow.

What suits you best?
Anything you could not live with?

Pick any that apply.

How much does this matter to you?

The land and the weather

Which natural hazards would you most like to avoid?

Why we ask: Every part of the country has something. The goal is choosing hazards you can prepare for, not finding a place with none.

Which natural hazards would you most like to avoid?

Pick any that apply.

How much does this matter to you?
What the record shows: Flooding

What people often assume: If the house is outside the flood zone, flooding is not my concern.

What the record shows: FEMA reports that 99% of U.S. counties had a flood event in the past 20 years. From 2014 to 2024, nearly one-third of federal flood insurance claims came from outside the mapped high-risk areas. Inside those areas, FEMA puts the chance of flooding at least once during a 30-year mortgage at 1 in 4.

What to do with this: Look up the address on the flood map, then ask about flood insurance either way. FEMA describes lower-risk zones as low but still meaningful risk.

Source: FEMA FloodSmart, What Is My Flood Risk

What the record shows: Heat

What people often assume: The dangerous weather is the dramatic kind: tornadoes and hurricanes.

What the record shows: In the National Weather Service's most recent ten-year averages, heat is linked to more deaths per year (279) than floods (118), tornadoes (51), or hurricane winds (25). The order changes from year to year. In 2025, floods were higher. EPA notes that death certificates very likely undercount heat deaths, because many are recorded as heart or breathing problems.

What to do with this: If you are choosing a hot climate, ask how the home stays cool when the power is out, and who nearby would check on you.

Source: National Weather Service, 81-Year List of Severe Weather Fatalities; EPA, Climate Change Indicators: Heat-Related Deaths

The land and the weather

If the power went out for several days, what in your home could not wait?

Why we ask: What depends on electricity in your home decides how much backup you need.

If the power went out for several days, what in your home could not wait?

Pick any that apply.

What the record shows: Power outages

What people often assume: Either that long outages never happen here, or that the grid is one bad day from failing.

What the record shows: In an ordinary year, outside of major events, the average U.S. customer is without power for about two hours in total. Major storms change the picture. In 2024 the national average was 11 hours, and hurricanes and other major events accounted for 80% of it. South Carolina customers averaged nearly 53 hours that year. Customers in Arizona, South Dakota, North Dakota, and Massachusetts averaged under two.

What to do with this: Outage time depends heavily on the state and its storms. Ask what the last long outage was at the address and how long it lasted, then plan for the things in your home that cannot wait.

Source: U.S. Energy Information Administration, Today in Energy, December 1, 2025

The land and the weather

Do you want to grow or raise some of your own food?

Why we ask: The answer decides how much land, water, and weekly work you are signing up for.

Do you want to grow or raise some of your own food?
What the record shows: Land and food

What people often assume: More acres means more food.

What the record shows: A connected in-town house with a useful garden can produce more than a large parcel nobody has time to work. What grows depends on sun, soil, water, and weekly hours, not on the deed.

What to do with this: Size the land to the hours you have. Count usable ground, not total acres.

The bigger worries

When you picture something going wrong, what comes to mind first?

Why we ask: Worries steer decisions whether we name them or not. Naming them lets you weigh them on purpose.

When you picture something going wrong, what comes to mind first?

Pick up to 3.

What the record shows: Flooding

What people often assume: If the house is outside the flood zone, flooding is not my concern.

What the record shows: FEMA reports that 99% of U.S. counties had a flood event in the past 20 years. From 2014 to 2024, nearly one-third of federal flood insurance claims came from outside the mapped high-risk areas. Inside those areas, FEMA puts the chance of flooding at least once during a 30-year mortgage at 1 in 4.

What to do with this: Look up the address on the flood map, then ask about flood insurance either way. FEMA describes lower-risk zones as low but still meaningful risk.

Source: FEMA FloodSmart, What Is My Flood Risk

What the record shows: Power outages

What people often assume: Either that long outages never happen here, or that the grid is one bad day from failing.

What the record shows: In an ordinary year, outside of major events, the average U.S. customer is without power for about two hours in total. Major storms change the picture. In 2024 the national average was 11 hours, and hurricanes and other major events accounted for 80% of it. South Carolina customers averaged nearly 53 hours that year. Customers in Arizona, South Dakota, North Dakota, and Massachusetts averaged under two.

What to do with this: Outage time depends heavily on the state and its storms. Ask what the last long outage was at the address and how long it lasted, then plan for the things in your home that cannot wait.

Source: U.S. Energy Information Administration, Today in Energy, December 1, 2025

What the record shows: Job loss or money trouble

What the record shows: Employers reported 21.2 million layoffs and discharges in 2025. That counts separations, not people, and it includes firings and the end of seasonal jobs. It is still the disruption on this list with the largest yearly count we could source.

What to do with this: A place with more than one way to earn a living is worth weighing.

Source: Bureau of Labor Statistics, Job Openings and Labor Turnover, annual 2025 levels

What the record shows: Illness

What the record shows: The three leading causes of death in the United States in 2024 were heart disease, cancer, and accidents. The ten leading causes together accounted for 70.9% of all deaths.

What to do with this: Access to regular care is part of choosing a place. Your answer on distance to care carries this.

Source: CDC National Center for Health Statistics, Data Brief 548, Mortality in the United States, 2024

What the record shows: Illness that spreads

What the record shows: CDC counted four influenza pandemics in the hundred years before 2018: in 1918, 1957, 1968, and 2009. The World Health Organization declared COVID-19 a pandemic on March 11, 2020.

What to do with this: What a home can offer is room to keep apart when someone is sick and a workable route to care. Distance from other people also means distance from care.

Source: CDC archive, 1918 Pandemic Commemoration key messages; CDC Museum COVID-19 Timeline

What the record shows: Crime

What the record shows: The national crime survey for 2024 found 48.3 property crimes per 1,000 households in rural areas, 96.1 in suburban areas, and 181.6 in urban areas. Lower is not zero, and these are national averages for broad categories. They do not describe any one town. About 3 in 10 property crimes were reported to police, so local police figures show part of the picture.

What to do with this: For a specific place, ask the sheriff's office or police department what they see most.

Source: Bureau of Justice Statistics, Criminal Victimization, 2024; Bureau of Justice Statistics, Key Findings from the 2024 NCVS: Property Crime

What the record shows: War or attack

What the record shows: No agency publishes how often this happens to U.S. households, because it is not a recurring event the way storms and layoffs are. We cannot give you a number and will not invent one.

What to do with this: You can give this worry as much weight as you choose. It comes back when you are comparing specific towns, with what is known about distance. If a radiation emergency ever did happen, the federal guidance is the same in every town: get inside, stay inside, and stay tuned, and expect to shelter for 24 hours or longer until officials say it is safe to leave.

Source: Ready.gov, Radiation Emergencies

The trade

If you cannot have everything, what do you protect and what do you give up?

Why we ask: Every real place is a compromise. Choosing yours ahead of time keeps the search honest.

Pick the three that matter most.

Pick up to 3.

Pick one you would bend on.
Would you rather the town stay about as it is, or is a growing town fine with you?
Picture this household in fifteen years. Does the plan still work?

How it works

What this does, and what it does not

It builds your requirements

Most people start by asking which state or town is best. The answer depends on your household: your work, your health, your budget, the people you need to stay near. Requirements come first, preferences second.

It hands you to town research

Where we have published town research, your answers carry over to that state's town directory. North Carolina is first. You can change any answer once you are there.

It never certifies a place

A match means a town is worth investigating. Open questions stay visible. Flood zones, internet, insurance, wells and septic all have to be checked at the exact address, and a visit comes before a decision.

Questions people ask

Before you start

How do I decide where to move?

Start with your household, not a map. Work out what you need from a place, what you would give up, and what would rule a town out. Then compare places against that list and visit before you commit. The questions on this page walk you through the first step.

Is there a best small town to move to?

No. A town that suits a remote-working couple can be a poor fit for a family that needs a hospital close by. The useful question is which kind of town fits your household, and what you are trading to live there.

Does this tool tell me a town is safe?

No. It gives you a profile of your own needs and, where we have published town research, a list of towns worth investigating. A research match is never a certification. Flood zones, internet service, insurance and wells all have to be checked at the exact address.

What happens to my answers?

They stay in your browser. Nothing is sent to us, no account is needed, and nothing personal is placed in the page address. You can clear them at any time with the Start over button.

About the author

Dan Whelan is the founder of New World Survival. He and his wife Vicki rode out Hurricane Andrew in 1992 and spent the week after sorting donations at a relief center in Homestead. More than thirty years of household preparedness later, he built this site to pass on what works. Read their story